People who, unlike you, have been through real problems know they can't fix the world all by themselves. I watched my own mother slowly succumb to ALS so forgive me if I didn't have time to obsess about pronouns. I don't even remember the sound of her voice.

And yes, since you asked for it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jkjnOAN3Mto

Once you face something like this, start complaining. Until then count your blessings. Speaking of concentration camps, you've got one on your own doorstep and don't seem to be eager to do anything about it. Guantanamo.