If you can afford a Valentino gown and have her disposable income, what others say about your appearance shouldn't upset you. Rich people live in a world of their own. The freedom to throw insults at them on social media gives average people the illusion everybody is equally vulnerable, which isn't true. They get away with stuff you'd be jailed for and they know it. If she expects our sypathies just to appear relatable, she's knocking at the wrong door. But I'm sure there are enough shoulders in Hollywood to cry on.